Is it selfish to elope?

So you've decided that you want your special day to be really special by having an intimate ceremony in a romantic or secluded setting, with just the celebrant and the legally required witnesses. It sounds romantic, exciting and impulsive. But have you thought about the impact this will have on your close friends and family? Does it matter? After all, it's your special day and why shouldn't you do what you want, regardless of what others may think or feel.
​There is an interesting article here from the point of view of a sister-of-the-bride. Well worth reading.